[nfbwatlk] Am I being too sensitive

[debby phillips]

Thanks Kaye.  I think I will partially answer your questions.  
Only because it helps me to think about things-you know, some of 
us women have to verbalize stuff.  (Grin).  So i'm not totally 
sure what his attitude about blindness is.  On occasion when we 
have gone somewhere and I've chosen to leave Lamar home, he has 
gotten out of the car and just walked away.  I've had to call him 
back, and ask him, So where are we going?  He would say, Oh, you 
know, I forget you're blind and just expect that you'll come 
along".  Now, I could take that as complimentary, and perhaps 
that's how he means it, and that's how I've chosen to look at it.  
But even so there's always something that doesn't feel quite 
right about it.  I just can't put my finger on what that is right 
now.  As far as Colorado, yes, he supports me going.  But I think 
he's a little nervous about how it will change the dynamics of 
our relationship.  Thanks,    Debby