[nfb-talk] question

[Corey Cook]

don't get me wrong I would love to move to oregon, no Hurricanes, no real 
humid heat.
but I would have to know I had a job offer before moving.
My job is important to me.

Corey Cook
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----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Sekhon, Harmeet" <Harmeet_Sekhon at cable.comcast.com>
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Sent: Saturday, June 02, 2007 11:30 AM
Subject: Re: [nfb-talk] question


Well, Oregon would be glad to have you two, but I can understand the
need to hold onto that job too.

Harmeet

-----Original Message-----
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On Behalf Of Corey Cook
Sent: Friday, June 01, 2007 11:08 PM
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Subject: Re: [nfb-talk] question

that is what I am doing at this point is trying to keep the peace.
because we are working threw bigger issues.
Like her wanting us to move to Oregon just 5 months after I got a job!

Corey Cook
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----- Original Message ----- 
From: "David Andrews" <dandrews at visi.com>
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Sent: Saturday, June 02, 2007 1:57 AM
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I understand your feelings, and intellectually I would agree that it
should
have been ok for him to ride.  However, having been married to a sighted

woman once, I will also say that you sometimes have to do things to keep

peace in the family that you may not be completely comfortable with.
Hopefully over time you can talk it through with her and reach a palce
that
is comfortable with you both.

There are tricky issues with sighted wives, driving, dependency,
independence, and other issues.  It isn't always simple or logical.  And
for
her it may have to do as much with your and her relationship as with
driving.

Sorry I don't have a better answer.

Dave

At 12:42 AM 6/2/2007, you wrote:
>Hey all,
>This is Corey Cook.
>I am looking for a little input from some other blind folks.
>As some of you know I am married to a sighted wife.
>We currently live in an apartment complex here in SC that has several
other
>blind folks here. The reason all of the blind ones are here is because
we
>all work for the same company.
>I am really good friends with one of the guys I work with and ever
since we
>moved in here he has been a big help to me and my wife.
>   We have also helped him a lot since we have been here. You know
asking
>him if he wants to go with us to walmart and out and about when we go
out.
>Lately we have cut back on taking him out a lot because it was getting
on
>my
>wife's nerves that he seemed to always be with us when we went
anywhere.
>   I can understand that because it is nice to just have couple time
now
> and
>then, but tonight something happened that really kind of got under my
skin.
>My wife and I had planned to go and see a movie tonight, and my friend
>asked
>if he could ride to the theater with us so he could see a different
movie
>that was playing at the same time.
>   Lets just say that my wife threw a big fit, and got mad that he
wanted
> to
>ride with us. I did not see a reason for a fit or any anger, as he did
not
>want to go to our movie but just wanted a ride so he could see a movie
>also.
>   As a blind person I did not think there was anything wrong with this
as
>we were going to the theater and it cost like 14$ for cab fair, so why
not
>just let him ride in our car, and both movies were equal in length.
>   So I am looking for thoughts, on this. I could have understood if he
was
>trying to crash our movie but it was just a ride.
>   All of a sudden my wife has decided she does not like a person who
has
>been our friend ever since we moved here, someone who has loaned us
money,
>when I had not started working yet, someone who is always willing to
help
>us
>out with anything he can do.
>
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