[Blindtlk] cane

[Graves, Diane]

Hi,

Very often when my tolerance level for this baby talk thing has been
maxed out, I will respond in kind, giving them a dose of their own
medicine.  For instance, if someone says to me "here you go Sweetie," I
will come back, (just as cordially) with "thank you Sweetie," or "honey"
or Baby."  What ever strikes my fancy at the time.  It usually catches
them off guard.


Diane Graves 
Civil Rights Specialist 
Indiana Civil Rights Commission 
Alternative Dispute Resolutions Unit 
317-232-2647 

 

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-----Original Message-----
From: blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org]
On Behalf Of Gloria Whipple
Sent: Monday, September 25, 2006 1:42 PM
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Yuck!

I also hate it when people try to talk baby talk to me. I hate it!
 


Gloria Whipple
Corresponding Secretary
nfb of WA
Inland Empire Chapter

-----Original Message-----
From: blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org]
On Behalf Of Graves, Diane
Sent: Monday, September 25, 2006 7:50 AM
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Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] cane

Exactly.  I usually try to be quick enough to answer their question
before the other person does.  This often succeeds in sending the
message. I think most of us can relate.  

One thing that really grates on my nerves is the ones that want to
"Honey Baby Sweetie" you, like they are talking to a 3 years old.  Now
where are some people who just do this to everyone they know.  I have no
problem with those people.  The ones I would like to SLAP, are the ones
that obviously are drowning you in syrupy baby talk and pet names simply
because you are blind.  

But, you know what?  That is truly They're ignorance and they're
problem, and we can't allow it to define or degrade us.  If we respond
maturely and with dignity, it simply reveals this behavior for the
foolishness that it is.
 
Diane Graves
Civil Rights Specialist
Indiana Civil Rights Commission
Alternative Dispute Resolutions Unit
317-232-2647 

 

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Churchill



 

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-----Original Message-----
From: blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org]
On Behalf Of Cindy Handel
Sent: Monday, September 25, 2006 10:35 AM
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Lindsay,

This still happens to all of us.  The best thing you can do is speak up
and let them know you hear them.  Answer their question, or tell them to
talk to you, rather than the other person.  Don't just sit by passively
and allow them to do that.

Cindy
----- Original Message -----
From: "lindsay" <lindsay777 at charter.net>
To: <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Monday, September 25, 2006 8:20 AM
Subject: [Blindtlk] cane


And what is really annoying is when people don't think you can tell when
they are talking about you right in front of you.  That really makes me
made.  I also don't like it when someone asks someone else something
about something you might need instead of you because they don't think
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