[Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind

Sat Oct 7 09:01:06 CDT 2006

Corey,

This is excellent advice.

Cindy
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Corey Cook" <ccook55 at sc.rr.com>
To: "NFBnet Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Saturday, October 07, 2006 1:17 AM
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind

Remember this, if it is meant to be it will happen.
Iether you are not meant to be with the guy from Oregon, or you are not
meant to be with him right now.
I know the lds church teaches about God's will. You might try excepting his
will.
I am telling you because I care about your safety and well being, if you
keep trying to force something to happen in the romance field before it is
supposed to happen for you, you are going to get hurt.
Maybe not physically hurt, but more likely emotionaly hurt.
Trust me most times emotional wounds take longer to heal than physical ones.
I know you are lonely and you want someone to help your loneliness but until
you can be happy being Jen you are not ready to be happy being with someone.
A relationship is both give and take, so when you do find someone you need
to be healthy enough to hold up your end of the deal.
That being healthy will come from being a person who is happy with her self,
and being able to support your mate when he needs it.

Corey Cook
ccook55 at sc.rr.com
MSN; romans815 at earthlink.net
AIM: goldadore922
BLOG: http://www.xanga.com/ciu_nice_guy
----- Original Message ----- 
From: <jaber37837 at cox.net>
To: "NFBnet Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Thursday, October 05, 2006 10:31 PM
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind

I've been a member of Eharmony off and on for about three years. Out of over
500 guys I've been matched with, there was only one who tried to have a
relationship with me. He lives in Oregon, and we were talking for about six
months before he decided I needed to find someone closer to home. He asked
me to visit him, and after that didn't work, he said he would come see me,
but it never happened because he didn't have the money or the free time. Now
three years later, we still keep in touch, which I'm happy about, but I feel
as though I missed out on something good because of not having the resources
to travel...both me as well as him. He told me that we could never be more
than friends because he knows I would get too emotionally attached...so he
stays on the west coast, and I stay on the east coast. I will admit to this
too, he wasn't exactly a perfect gentleman...he had his moments of being
something of a pervert. He's a really sweet guy though. Although we've never
met in person, sometimes we finish each other's sentences. I won't say I
know him like the back of my hand, but I know him pretty well. It really is
too bad he lives so far away.

Jen
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Corey Cook" <ccook55 at sc.rr.com>
To: "NFBnet Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Thursday, October 05, 2006 8:41 PM
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind

> Hey Ray,
> I was a member of eharmony for a while.
> I met a couple of girls that nothing worked out with.
> Then I met my wife at college. Go figure.
>
> Corey Cook
> ccook55 at sc.rr.com
> MSN; romans815 at earthlink.net
> AIM: goldadore922
> BLOG: http://www.xanga.com/ciu_nice_guy
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "Ray Foret Jr." <rforetjr at bellsouth.net>
> To: "NFBnet Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Thursday, October 05, 2006 9:00 AM
> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind
>
>
> Quite frankly, I am very disillusioned with the idea of internet dating
> for
> the blind.  The two or so groups I tried got me not a word of response.
> IF
> you try those dating services, you'll find yourself very disappointed.
> The
> instant they find out you're blind, by by baby.  Sorry to say this, but, I
> have yet to have a good experience with the very few blind dating groups
> I've tried.  They were both yahoo groups; and, quite frankly, all I got
> out
> of any of them was total silence.  I'm about good and done with it.
>
> Sincerely yours,
> The Constantly Barefooted,
> Ray
> Home phone and fax:
> (985)853-0139
> E-mail:
> rforetjr at bellsouth.net
> Skype Name:
> barefootedray
> Blog:
> www.raysworld.blogs.com
> Podcast .rss Feed:
> http://feeds.feedburner.com/worldofray
>
> God bless President George W. Bush!
> God bless our troops!
> and God bless America
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: <jaber37837 at cox.net>
> To: "BlindTalk" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Wednesday, October 04, 2006 11:46 PM
> Subject: [Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind
>
>
> Hi listers,
>
> I'm not sure if this is the proper place to discuss this, but I thought I
> would put it out there anyway.
>
> About a week or so ago, I had mentioned that I had met someone in New York
> who seems to be interested in me, and I have found a way to get there
> without causing an up-roar at home (I was worried about how my parents
> would
> react if I just took off).
>
> Well, I have arranged it so that my Dad will be bringing me to meet this
> guy. Sounds ok, right? He isn't thrilled, but he understands why it needs
> to
> be this way. I just can't help wondering if I'm wrong about him somehow.
> Of
> course, I think this way about everybody, even perfectly safe people. I've
> done a criminal back ground check on him, nothing there except for a
> traffic
> violation from sixteen years ago, he sounds ok to me, but is he?
>
> Anyway, I could go on and on about this all night, but I won't. I just
> don't
> know what to think.
>
> I've checked everything I could think of, address, criminal background,
> Psych profile, everything seems fine.
>
> I guess I just would appreciate some advice if anyone has any. I'm really
> excited about meeting him, but my paranoia is getting in the way...I could
> be worrying about nothing.
>
> Thanks for any input,
>
> Jen
>
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