[Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind

[Cindy Handel]

Jen,

You should call the Department of State in New York.  They could tell you if 
he has a business and probably also if he is licensed as a realtor.  If they 
can't tell you both of those things, they could tell you who to call.

Cindy
----- Original Message ----- 
From: <jaber37837 at cox.net>
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Sent: Thursday, October 05, 2006 3:44 PM
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind


I was planning on staying for two days. My Dad doesn't want to stay any
longer than that. AS far as calling NY to find out if he really does what he
says he does, not a bad idea, except who would I call...Chamber of Commerce?

Jen
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Cindy Handel" <cindy425 at verizon.net>
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Sent: Thursday, October 05, 2006 2:24 PM
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind


> Jen,
>
> A phone call or two, to New York State, should be able to tell you if he
> has
> a real estate license and if he has his own business.  If for no other
> reason, I think I'd put the trip off, for awhile, just because three weeks
> seems to soon, to me, to travel that far to meet someone who isn't willing
> to do the same for you.  If he has a real estate business and can see, he
> probably does drive.  So, it would be a lot easier for him to come to
> where
> you are.
>
> Are you planning to meet at a restaurant?  How long do you plan to spend
> there, after driving five hours?
>
> I still think it would be a good idea to wait, even if you do get the
> answers you hope for.  I think you need more time to get to know him.  You
> need to know if the information he give you, about himself, is consistent
> and if he isn't afraid to answer your questions about him.  He wants you
> to
> be upfront and honest.  He should do the same.
>
> Cindy
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: <jaber37837 at cox.net>
> To: "NFBnet Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Thursday, October 05, 2006 1:34 PM
> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind
>
>
> Hi Cindy,
>
> He said that because of his Real Estate business, it's difficult for him
> to
> get away. Yes, this was a red flag for me immediately, however there may
> be
> a legitimate reason why this is true. I did ask him to come here to Rhode
> Island, and at first he said it wasn't a problem, but then he asked me to
> come to see him; it's only a five hour drive. So I arranged it because my
> Dad has nothing better to do really.
>
> I'm still waiting for the report I ordered. It will tell me his general
> behavior, whether or not he does run a real estate business, what assets
> he
> has, whether he owns any licenses...of course, if everything he told me is
> a
> lie, I'm definitely not going. I don't know yet though, so I'll have to
> wait
> and find out.
>
> Jen
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "Cindy Handel" <cindy425 at verizon.net>
> To: "NFBnet Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Thursday, October 05, 2006 11:45 AM
> Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind
>
>
>> Jen,
>>
>> I have to echo what others have said.  How much of a distance is there
>> between you and New York, where you're meeting this guy?  Where are you
>> going to meet?  Is that where your date will be, like a restaurant or
>> something like that?  If this guy drives, wouldn't it be easier, and more
>> desirable, for him to come to where you are?  At least, if you're in your
>> own area, you could choose where to go for the date and feel more
>> comfortable about leaving, if things didn't go the way you planned.
>>
>> Cindy
>> ----- Original Message ----- 
>> From: <jaber37837 at cox.net>
>> To: "BlindTalk" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
>> Sent: Thursday, October 05, 2006 12:46 AM
>> Subject: [Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind
>>
>>
>> Hi listers,
>>
>> I'm not sure if this is the proper place to discuss this, but I thought I
>> would put it out there anyway.
>>
>> About a week or so ago, I had mentioned that I had met someone in New
>> York
>> who seems to be interested in me, and I have found a way to get there
>> without causing an up-roar at home (I was worried about how my parents
>> would
>> react if I just took off).
>>
>> Well, I have arranged it so that my Dad will be bringing me to meet this
>> guy. Sounds ok, right? He isn't thrilled, but he understands why it needs
>> to
>> be this way. I just can't help wondering if I'm wrong about him somehow.
>> Of
>> course, I think this way about everybody, even perfectly safe people.
>> I've
>> done a criminal back ground check on him, nothing there except for a
>> traffic
>> violation from sixteen years ago, he sounds ok to me, but is he?
>>
>> Anyway, I could go on and on about this all night, but I won't. I just
>> don't
>> know what to think.
>>
>> I've checked everything I could think of, address, criminal background,
>> Psych profile, everything seems fine.
>>
>> I guess I just would appreciate some advice if anyone has any. I'm really
>> excited about meeting him, but my paranoia is getting in the way...I
>> could
>> be worrying about nothing.
>>
>> Thanks for any input,
>>
>> Jen
>>
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