[Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind

[jaber37837 at cox.net]

Hi Cindy,

He said that because of his Real Estate business, it's difficult for him to 
get away. Yes, this was a red flag for me immediately, however there may be 
a legitimate reason why this is true. I did ask him to come here to Rhode 
Island, and at first he said it wasn't a problem, but then he asked me to 
come to see him; it's only a five hour drive. So I arranged it because my 
Dad has nothing better to do really.

I'm still waiting for the report I ordered. It will tell me his general 
behavior, whether or not he does run a real estate business, what assets he 
has, whether he owns any licenses...of course, if everything he told me is a 
lie, I'm definitely not going. I don't know yet though, so I'll have to wait 
and find out.

Jen
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Cindy Handel" <cindy425 at verizon.net>
To: "NFBnet Blind Talk Mailing List" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Thursday, October 05, 2006 11:45 AM
Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind


> Jen,
>
> I have to echo what others have said.  How much of a distance is there
> between you and New York, where you're meeting this guy?  Where are you
> going to meet?  Is that where your date will be, like a restaurant or
> something like that?  If this guy drives, wouldn't it be easier, and more
> desirable, for him to come to where you are?  At least, if you're in your
> own area, you could choose where to go for the date and feel more
> comfortable about leaving, if things didn't go the way you planned.
>
> Cindy
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: <jaber37837 at cox.net>
> To: "BlindTalk" <blindtlk at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Thursday, October 05, 2006 12:46 AM
> Subject: [Blindtlk] Internet dating for the blind
>
>
> Hi listers,
>
> I'm not sure if this is the proper place to discuss this, but I thought I
> would put it out there anyway.
>
> About a week or so ago, I had mentioned that I had met someone in New York
> who seems to be interested in me, and I have found a way to get there
> without causing an up-roar at home (I was worried about how my parents 
> would
> react if I just took off).
>
> Well, I have arranged it so that my Dad will be bringing me to meet this
> guy. Sounds ok, right? He isn't thrilled, but he understands why it needs 
> to
> be this way. I just can't help wondering if I'm wrong about him somehow. 
> Of
> course, I think this way about everybody, even perfectly safe people. I've
> done a criminal back ground check on him, nothing there except for a 
> traffic
> violation from sixteen years ago, he sounds ok to me, but is he?
>
> Anyway, I could go on and on about this all night, but I won't. I just 
> don't
> know what to think.
>
> I've checked everything I could think of, address, criminal background,
> Psych profile, everything seems fine.
>
> I guess I just would appreciate some advice if anyone has any. I'm really
> excited about meeting him, but my paranoia is getting in the way...I could
> be worrying about nothing.
>
> Thanks for any input,
>
> Jen
>
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